Bear

[harleychik66]

Leslie, many people don't understand how much we miss our pets when they leave us. Hubby and I lost our GSD last September and there are still days when I tear up thinking about him.

They are far more loyal than any two-legged friend, listen better than our kids(LOL), and (I feel ) know our feelings even better than our spouses do. Is it any wonder we miss them so much when they leave us. This is why I say I like animals better than most people.

I know you are doing the "what ifs". Please, please don't beat yourself up. You did everything you could to make Bear's life the best it could be. It is so obvious how much you loved and cared for him. You gave him the best life he could have possibly had and he knew that.

Everyone deals with grief in their own way. I'm so sorry your friend can't understand how you are feeling right now. I do and you have my support. Don't be so sure that hubby isn't grieving though. Many men have a hard time showing emotions, and he may just be dealing with it in a different way. He may also be having his "breakdowns" when you are not around so that he can be strong for you.

Just remember that you have the right to mourn Bear any way you want and should never feel guilty for it. He was a big part of your life.

Sending support and hugs.

Shawn

[Sam's Mom]

I know how hard this is...we all do. Thank God we have this forum. I know I was glued to it for a long time when I was in your shoes...it was my lifeline. What to say?? Words just seem to fall short at a time like this. You just keep feeling and keep talking. Know you do not have to walk this path alone...we are all here for you.

[Bear's mommy]

Originally Posted by DreamweaverRotts

Dear Leslie,

I'm so very sorry to read that you lost Bear. I had such hope for him but it appears that he had complications that were too hard to overcome. I know you did the right thing but it surely doesn't make it any easier.

I too am so sorry for not getting back to you sooner. I've been sick and overwhelmed with another family tragedy. My 10 month old grand nephew, Baron, passed away. He was born May 8, 2007, weighing 1 lb, 11 oz., 12 1/2 inches long, after only 27 weeks and 1 day of gestation. He seemed to thrive and gained weight but he suffered from bronchial pulmonary dysplasia and he lost his fight early Sunday night. We are all heartbroken, as I'm sure you all must be too.

I can only think of one of my favorite quotes from the movie "Message in a Bottle" ...

"If some lives form a perfect circle, others take shape in ways we cannot predict or always understand. Loss has been a part of my journey, but it has always shown me what is precious. So has a love for which I can only be grateful."

With Deepest Sympathy,
Helen

Oh Helen, I am so sorry about your nephew. That is so devastating. I will pray that you and your family have comfort and healing during this terrible time. I love your quote from "Message in a Bottle". It is beautiful. Believe it or not, I have never seen that movie.

I, too, thought Bear was really going to make it, but his kidneys just weren't strong enough. I miss him beyond words, but I know he is healthy and pain free now. It has been this forum and all of the kind words that have helped me the most right now. Thank God there are really other people out there that actually knows how much a pet means to a family.

Again, I am so sorry for your loss as well. Thank you for thinking of Bear and my family.

Leslie