Two weeks ago today - when does it get easier?

[Cyndi]

SierraDog, if your Niki is even half as good as my Niki, you will have a jewel on your hands. Good luck and let me know if you get her.

[my2rotties]

It has been going onto seven months since I lost my Grumpy girl. I have much better days now, but I still can't think or talk about her, without fighting back tears. My heart is not as heavy as it used to be, but I don't think it will ever be totally free from this weight.

I updated her web pages recently, and when I did it, I totally fell apart. I get an email almost everyday, from people that saw her site, and cried their eyes out. When I return their mail, I cry my eyes out too. It seems almost painful to deal with, but it is slowly healing me in a way that I can't explain.

Diva has helped me more then anything. It has taken time, but I love her so much now, and can't stand the thought of losing her now. I try to move on with my life, and take it day by day. The pain slowly does subside, but I don't think it can ever go away totally.

Don't knock yourself for feeling the way that you do. Let your pain run its course. There is no rule book on how long you should grieve for. Non dog people do not understand your pain, and that is their loss. You have us to grieve with, and to share the many happy memories you have.

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Diana Primiterra
http://www.geocities.com/Petsburgh/Yard/8867/index.html
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Although I would like our world to change
It helps me to appreciate
Those nights and those dreams
But, my friend, I'd sacrifice all those nights
If I could make the Earth and my dreams the same.
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Creed

[Christine's harley]

It's been almost 3 month's since Harley went to the bridge and not a day goes by that I don't think of her and miss her. The best thing to happen for me was a wonderful rescue coming into my life, she has helped to heal my broken heart. I do believe when the time is right for you something will come along out of the blue,I hope as time goes on your feeling better and your heart doesnt ache so. Best wishes Christine