| I would caution you to be very aware of your tone of voice and body english. If you use an aggressive or worried tone, or your body english indicates the people should stay back, you will give a message to the dog that even friendly people approaching are to be of concern and reinforce their baseless fears. This is NOT where you want to go with a dog that is already fearful and timid. Use a happy cheerful voice saying hello in a positive manner and if you need to ask someone not to come on in on the dog, still continue the positive voice. You can do this while putting in a partial left turn so that the dog is somewhat back and to the side of you while still not hiding behind you. That interposes you between the person and the dog in a casual and unobvious manner.
As mentioned, no pet pet pet or stroking of a dog that is showing unreasonable fears, however, a good sturdy pat on the shoulder accompanied again by a happy voice is fine. Avoid the "soothing" voice as well.
Your goal is to give the dog confidence in other people and in your ability to make the judgements. It is very important that timid dogs trust their owners and so the messages you give are critical.  |