| Re: Is there any hope for me?
Oh, one last thing...in dog language, it's considered a a bit of a threat to come at him head on, or to bend over him. It's oppressive. That is, at least until he adopts you, as he undoubtedly will.
Remember how well he's doing very well at adjusting. He wants to belong and be loved by you. Give him some air to breathe and some time.
We adopted a Cocker Spaniel with so-o-o-o-o many, issues! A little kindness, affection and training...giving him some space, not pushing issues too soon, and we had a wonderful dog in no time! Literally, everyone on the street fell in love with him. He's 17, now, and except for recent senility... perfect!
Let him have that "space" for a while. It hurts no one. Your approach should be slightly off to the side, and confident! I can't emphasize your confidence enough.
You can do this. You know you can. Just follow a few simple rules, consistently and fairly.
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