[SABELLESMOM]

I think it's quite likely the dog is feeding off your own negativity. This is kindly meant. Don't take offense, but the more casual and relaxed you are, the more likely he is to feed off THAT, instead.

Pups cue in to our reactions. Dogs prefer to be approached slightly from the side rather than dead on. Did the man walk directly toward him? Did he bend forward even slightly? Either of these may upset a young pup. It is seen as confrontational.

You can help him build his confidence! Take him to a class. Let him puzzle out what you want him to do and receive praise for it. Let him feel pride.

You, on the other hand, make certain you are non-challant. Don't baby him. Laugh. Make a funny comment about how goofy he's being. He'll catch on.