[Janus'sMom]

I understand that you're not saying this to offend me. As I see this as a problem also. But I am in here trying to find help to help keep better control of Janus. Unfortunately I've had to tell my boyfriend last night when he called to check up to see how his son was behaving, I had to tell him if he didn't find help soon that I was leaving. He uses the excuse that "he's a child, it's normal". I'm sorry, but I don't find this normal for D to be biting me! kicking me! and throwing toy cars at me! in one nite after stabbing me with a fork! And if he's not willing to get help for his son, regardless of Janus, I'm leaving, I'm tired of being abused by a 3yr old. And its not that I don't want to be a mother figure in his life. But this behavior from D has been going on for 3 months. Every time he comes back from visiting his mother it gets worse.

I'm sorry, but this is severly off topic. (sheepish grin) If you want to continue talking about this or have any idea on what I can try to resolve these issues, feel free to email me.