| Re: My Roxie PTS
Coming to this from a different angle, and forgive me if this seems too forward, but I think it's very important to forgive your husband .... I have a SO who, for all intents and purposes, said "it's the dog or me" - and while I believe the dog and I would have been perfectly fine in a cabin in the woods alone together, it wasn't going to happen. Same issue - unpredictable aggressiveness - and my SO said he wasn't going to live with a dog like that. I would have, as that dog was my soul mate.
Anyway. I gave up too, made the decision to move on and let the dog go and promised my SO that I would never ever hold it against him, though believe me, I'm sorely tempted to at times. Keeping the anger and the blame alive isn't going to help, and some people (not all!!!) are worth making sacrifices for.
It's been two and a half years, and I'm not over it. I'm tearing up as I write this - thank heaven I'm at work. |