[TrishB]

I'm sorry - I was taking it as a general "in life" comment about when people get advice. I didn't take it as "in the forum" life.

I COMPLETELY agree with JudiW. If you post on a public internet forum - you're gonna get responses. If you ask a question, you're gonna get answers - whether you like them or not. If you're not prepared to possibly hear something you don't want, don't post. If you want some insight that you might have missed on your own or you're ready for the truth - post.