| I was stimulated to start this thread when someone recently presented a very serious problem and then got her knickers in a knot because she was told "should have done" to explain that she had other options than the one she selected. When a problem is presented to the forums, it is assumed that one is soliciting advice, not just looking for attention. Sometimes it takes a while for the rest of us to understand that it was attention seeking rather than advice seeking. When a person who presents a question but will argue and argue about it, I'm getting a bit quicker at getting the point.
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