| Yes, you should feel reluctant to find a new owner for your rottie. The behavior/ultimatum from your in-laws is unbelievable to me. I have to agree with others posting here that if you keep the dog and the in-laws stay away, that would be perfect! Your family obviously loves this dog and you are trying to do the right thing. As Judy says, if you spay, do obedience, and crate the dog when they visit, there's no reason why they should refuse to go to your home. My own personal belief, and what goes at my house, is love me and love my dog; no one would dare come between the two, or they know I would say Adios, and don't let the door hit you in the behind. That may sound harsh, but the fact is, the dog is my responsibility, and I won't tolerate outside interference. Just keep in mind it is your family, your dog, and your responsibility. Your in-laws are adding unnecessary complications.
take care, and best of luck!
Heidi |