although I am not involved in conformation, I understand how frustrating this is for you. All I can say is I am sorry you had to go through this. Poor Duncan I feel bad for him. Just remember even god can't change the way YOU view Duncan and that is just one person's interpretation that day. The heck with him, it happened, it's over and do NOT let him ruin ANOTHER minute of your life! I know its easier said than done, but take a deep breath, I hope you feel better soon! and KISS duncan for me!