| Re: Sleeping on the bed...
You can start with saying "no bed", mean it, and show Paradise her own bed on the floor. You have to do this all of the time and not let her up there when you feel like it, feel sorry for her because she'll give you the "sad" eyes. This also includes hubby's actions. He shouldn't be letting her up there while you're not around, either. So, you're going to have to make your bed off limits all of the time, and enforce it all of the time. BTW, nice therapeutic beds can be bought cheap at Costo's and Sam's Clubs.
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