| Re: Feeling like a complete failure - please help (very long)
Kane might be asserting his dominance over your duaghter and your boyfriend. But i noticed you said that you had to "coax" him into the kitchen with a treat. No coaxing with treats. as soon as he starts the jumping up and biting after being told not to do it, he's marched into his crate with a leash on, and then ignored for at least half an hour. Then let hime out. if he does it again ( he probably will) then back he goes immediately. Eventually he will get the message. It's great to be giving treats, and playing and having affectionate moments with your dog. But you don't "coax" them, you tell them. That's how it works. if you present yourself as subserviant, they will run with it. It's natural. Be the leader, and eminate that role |