I think he's definately telling you who's boss and wants your wife all to himself
. He's the guest in your home not your wife. Tell your wife to correct him and stop this bossy behavior before he gets to be 100 pounds and he's REALLY telling you what to do and what he wants.
Hopefully Judi W. will respond bc she has the input on this type of behavior:D . I just know it isn't a good thing and he needs a correction as soon as this occurs.
Judy