| I am so sorry Jo! I had a Brutus too, we lost him about 3 years ago at the age of 12. As for who should tell the kids, what does Mike say, and if the dog was with him and his first wife then maybe they should tell them. Make it as simple as possible, saying he was sick and now in heaven with all the other pets people have lost. The truth is the best and they must realize that death with animals and humans is a part of life so how you handle this will perhaps have a lasting affect on them so I agree to get the advice from a professional. I am one that feels you can't shelter your kids from everyday lifes events, though we are sad and would like our animals to be with us for ever, it's not the way it is. The fact that Brutus was loved so much by all of you is truly a special gift. Please let us know how it went with the kids, my best to all of you. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. One more thing, don't be afraid to cry in front of the kids, it too is a healthy part of life. I'm so very sorry!
Judy  |