[jo]

Yesterday Brutus passed on, in my arms, as I would not have had it any other way. It all seemed so sudden, which was probably a very good thing. I am still a mess, but I am trying my hardest to keep it together. I do not work outside of my home, and these 3 dogs are my life. Sleeping without Brutus beside me last night seemed to be one of the hardest things I have ever had to ever deal with, waking up was even worse. One good thing is that Nitro, the puppy, hasn't left my side since it has happened, and has continued licking my tears off of my face. My question to you guys is that Mike has 2 boys, 4 & 7, from his 1st marriage. They live with their mother, but are usually here throughout the week and stay over on weekends. Brutus was Mike's dog, before we got together, so Michael, the 7 year old, has known him all is life, and loves him to death. Brutus had just turned 9 in March. Mike's ex-wife is going to ask the child psychologist who should tell the boys and where. I just wanted the opinion from you guys, "the real experts". Should Mike & I tell them here at our house? As I am extremely close to the boys also. Or should his ex-wife tell them at their house? We just don't know what to do. I would appreciate any input. Thanks everyone...... once again.