| 70/30 Rule
Show affection on your terms...when I come home from work my guy is going nuts inside....so I let him outside and I go inside...give him about 20 minutes, then go outside and play with him.....it's all on my terms.
I find myself the wide majority of the time in alpha mode....not allowed in the living room, not allowed on the couch, not allowed to beg for food, not allowed to go downstairs unattended etc etc etc. 70%alpha 30% fun or somewhere around there. It is extremely important that these two numbers do not get reversed, or your life will turn into a living nightmare.
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